The best tips for manifesting the life you want are always the most simple and they’re usually undetected because of their simplistic nature. All it takes to begin creating a new reality are simple shifts in your perspectives and beliefs.
In today’s blog post, I’m sharing law of attraction tips for manifesting the life YOU want.
Manifesting the life you want
I listened to a free summit called Manifesting with the Masters, hosted by Jen Mazer, The Queen of Manifesting. It was 25 manifesting experts all doing 45 minute interviews with Jen, sharing nuggets of advice and wisdom pertaining to all areas of life.
This blog post is my compiled notes that I took while listening to these inspiring speakers.
In this article are 23 simple yet powerful law of attraction tips that will help shift beliefs and perspectives you might be holding within your subconscious mind and start manifesting your dream life.
I picked up a lot of “aha moments” of clarity that I wanted to share here with whoever stumbles across it. Below I’ve divided the topics up into Parenting, Business, and Manifesting. I hope you enjoy these tips for manifesting the life you want.
Parenting manifesting tips
✦ Attitude
For me, one of the biggest blocks I have in regards to negative thoughts cropping up is the constant, day-to-day demands of two small children. I’m in the “mommy” phase; small, needy children who have back to back demands and wake up frequently at night.
It just gets overwhelming sometimes and I find myself drained often. Jen said something that really helped shift my focus…she said instead of saying “I have to”, say “I get to” for everything that might seem unpleasant for you.
“I have to take care of two small children all day long” –> “I get to stay home with my two small children all day long.” (This is true, I’m so grateful to be the one who is home with them).
“I have to deal with the roughness and loud nature of boys constantly” –> “I get to have two beautiful, healthy boys that I always wanted and knew I would have.”
“I have to wake up multiple times a night” –> “I get to experience motherhood and all the lessons of character it teaches me.” Yeah, that one was hard to convert, but it’s true: everything we experience, good or bad, helps us grow.
✦ Daily Alignment
It is so important to align yourself first thing in the morning so that your whole day flows smoother and in doing so you set yourself up for amazing things to come into your experience. I have a morning self-care routine that I do every day and it truly does makes such a difference.
✦ Do everything from a place of love
Susann Taylor Shier touched on motherhood a few times, and she mentioned scenarios like a sink full of dishes and dinner needing to be made, etc. She said to do everything from a place of love. When you do it from love, it gives it more purpose and it puts you more in alignment with that which you want to receive.
Business manifesting tips
✦ We are here to create
You have something to offer. We were born to create.
✦ You dream the ideas that are meant to come through you; start before you’re ready
This one touched me so much. I don’t know about you, but a lot of times I feel like a fraud, or like I’m not actually knowledgeable enough to write about anything I want to because who am I to write on a certain topic? Especially when I’m no expert.
But, if a dream or an idea comes to you, it’s because you are meant to bring it forward. You don’t have to have a Ph.D or 20 years experience in something to begin sharing what you know. That’s how you become an expert.
✦ God has no hands but yours
This one gave me chills. Another reason to listen to the whispers in your heart…there’s something bigger trying to come through you. Don’t be afraid to follow through.
✦ Keep your new ideas to yourself
When you have a new idea, the energy around it is sacred to you. And when we share that energy before it’s ready, we risk losing it. They related it like the steam coming out of a kettle; we need to hold our ideas in until they’re ready, because we need the steam!
Have you ever gotten an amazing idea, one that would be a big undertaking, and you shared it with someone and then felt a little bit of the steam lost? That’s because when we talk about it, we create the energy that it’s already happened and it can make you lose momentum.
✦ You must take action
Don’t wait until you think you’re ready–if you have the vision, just start. Start the book, start the business, start whatever it is you’ve been dreaming about.
✦ Own your greatness
Say YES to your value, to serve, to receive money, to gaining clients. When we subconsciously believe that what we’re offering has no value, we put that energy out and keep ourselves from receiving. Say YES to good things coming to you.
✦ Love
Love yourself first, love what you are offering second, and love your audience enough to offer what you’re selling.
✦ There is no competition
Everything is divinely inspired, which means just like there is an abundance of air and we don’t worry about there not being enough air for us to breathe on this planet with billions of other people, there is an abundance of love, joy, success, and money for everyone.
✦ Flourish
Let all that you are flourish; you weren’t meant to work hard. Do everything from a place of love and let things happen rather than forcing them to happen.
General manifesting tips
✦ Expect it
Jen said “know it will happen and that everything will work out in your favor.”
✦ Gratitude
Almost every single one of the 25 speakers mentioned how important this is. It aligns us with what we want, strengthens our expectations, brings you into the “miracle zone”, and opens you up to receive more. Making daily gratitude lists is a powerful way to stay in alignment.
✦ Welcome change
We can’t receive new things if we stay in the same situations and patterns. Change isn’t scary; it’s bringing you closer and closer to your dream.
✦ Visualize
Another big one mentioned in almost every interview; the importance of visualizing your goals/dreams.
You must feel the dream, imagine already having it, engage every sense, step into the person/world you want to be in. When you’ve visualized correctly, you’ll feel the shift, you’ll feel excited!
✦ Do belief work
Everything that has happened to you has happened because you believed it was possible; this works for both bad and good things. If you have limiting beliefs as to what’s possible for you, your dreams can’t come to you. If you believe money is hard to make, that will be your experience.
Sit down and write out your beliefs in an area you’re having trouble in. If it’s money, write down all of your self-limiting beliefs on money. Realize them, write their opposite on the other side of the paper, rip the paper in half and burn or destroy the side with the bad beliefs. Release them and do this often, until they stop coming up as blocks for you.
✦ Surrender
State your intentions and goals, and then let go and allow for your dream or something even better to come to you.
✦ Look for clues
Look for clues that your dream is getting closer. This strengthens your expectation and keeps you excited. See everything as a positive sign.
Did a friend recently achieve something you’ve been wanting? Their experience coming into your reality is a sign that your dream is coming closer! I look at it like the universe is asking me “Is this what you meant? Is this what you want, too?”
Be happy for them, because when you are, you are telling the universe/God that you want the same thing!
✦ Doubt the doubt
Instead of doubting the dream, doubt any doubt that comes up for you. That’s your inner critic feeling afraid.
✦ Trust in perfect timing
It will happen. Don’t give up, and be grateful for all the lessons you’ve learned along the way to your dream. Everything that happens is preparing you and stretching you to step into your dream.
✦ Blow the whistle on yourself
How are you not acting like the vision of yourself in your dream? For me personally, I want to be a published author. I blew the whistle on myself for stalling, for not writing, for being afraid. The vision of myself as a published author is confident, she writes, and she believes in her message. (Update, I published my book this year!).
Overall takeaway
The overall lesson I walked away with was putting everything into action. Practice daily alignment, guard my energy and time (be aware of procrastinating, time wasters, engaging in things that drain me), ask myself what would the future vision of myself would do today to help me step into that reality?
I hope you enjoyed my notes and found something helpful or useful for manifesting the life you want. I’m sharing some other articles on the blog that you might like if you enjoyed this post:
- Practical Tips for Manifesting Your Desires
- Creating Abundance When Surrounded By Lack
- How Following the Moon Will Make You Better at Manifesting
- My All-Time Favorite Books on Manifesting
- 3 Ways the LOA is Just Like Instagram’s Algorithm
- My Favorite Guided Meditations for Manifesting
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Lots of love,
Jessica
Jessica Dimas is the author of The 7 Day Mini Manifesting Bootcamp. Connect with her on Facebook and Instagram for more inspiration and updates.
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Thank you! This helps so much. Congrats on being published. Your success encourages me!
Thanks for this amazing blog post. Helped me lift up my spirits 🙂
I’m so happy it lifted your spirits! Thank you for your comment <3
Hi Jessica, Thank you so much for this post I came across it on Facebook and will now be a follower,subscriber. This post screamed to me (in a nice way of course), while I don’t have kids, every aspect of this post just resonated with me, so thank you very much. I’ll be putting a lot of these suggestions in place. I too aspire to be an author and started a blog and am suffering from fright of ( who do I think I am writing about dogs etc), so this has helped in more ways than 10 lol
So glad you stumbled across my blog! Yes, that summit I listened to (and created these notes from) was so, so helpful for me. I’ve been a blogger for 5 years and have had those same thoughts of “who do I think I am to even write about anything at all, and who the heck would even want to read it?” And when I started creating eBooks I had the same thoughts of “who do you think you are to write on any topic?”. Don’t let the fear hold you back though, there is so much growth for our souls that is beyond the fearful obstacle. Write what’s in your heart! It wouldn’t be there if you weren’t meant to share it <3
Thankyou! Words Ive neededti hear! Very Inspiring! Ive thought about writing fir a long while. Ive had a lot of thought hold me back. Negative thoughtsof not feeling good enough or thinking Im just dreaming like its never going to become anything. We do need to believe in ourselves no matter if were not educated more or have made bad choices mistakes in Life. This snOw this is Me. I do need to embrace Me who I am who I desire to become while Im following my dreams. Thankyou
FOR SURE. It absolutely does not matter if you’re not “educated” or have made bad choices. All the better to be a writer if you have because you have stories and lessons and experiences to tell. You would not be where you are with the knowledge you have if you hadn’t have gone down some tough roads. Anytime you feel bad when thinking of something related to your dreams, it’s a sign that your higher self doesn’t agree with you…so listen to your higher self over those doubts. Follow what feels good and what excites you <3
Thanks you very much ! You offer to me a hope and you remind me the good way to follow. I needed it.
You’re welcome Alex, thank you for your comment!
These are some wonderful words! These encouraged and calmed me down right away with everything going on in my life! Thank you so much for sharing!
So glad you stumbled across this post, it was perfect timing! Thank you for your comment <3
Thank you, Jessica Dimas, I love to read this! very helpful tips.
Thank you Nedalee, I’m glad you enjoyed it! xo
Great Tips! Thank you. I really need to do a morning self care. Where instead of getting up and snuggling with a book in the quiet I get up and get myself ready. Reading can wait for evening, it can be hard to drag myself out of that book and it just puts me in the wrong frame of mind for caring for my chicklettes
Oh snuggling up with books in the quiet is soooo tempting, but if it puts you in the wrong frame of mind, yeah it would be helpful to replace it with something that starts your day off on the right foot! My phone does that to me so I definitely try to put it off, makes such a difference!
Years I’ve been dreaming of becoming a Nurse. Instead I became a Teacher. I was too afraid to take certain classes for the nursing program. Fear kept me from achieving my dream. Now I’m 3 years away from turning 40, married and 3 little children ages 5, 4 and 2, I decided to go back to school lol..ready or not..Thank you for your post. I will be following your blogs and posts.
You have amazing and inspiring content! Thank you!
I love this. It’s validation. Thank you.
When I’m completely bogged down I do a little exercise just before bed. I write down all the negatives on my mind as a way to release them from thought. This helps me sleep. Then when I wake up I write the ideal of each negative. More often than not the positive manifests.
Oh I love this routine Debbie! What a good idea to release and then focus on the positive afterwards. Thank you for sharing xo
I was feeling lost. I was feeling lonely. I was feeling like a failure…..one of those days that makes you feel defeated&worthless. I asked for an angel to make me feel better and an hour after that, I came across this article. You were my angel for yesterday-thank you for your inspirational words and thank you for making me feel better.
Hey Jen, late reply but I wanted to let you know that your comment brought tears to my eyes. I’m so glad you stumbled on this blog post right when you needed it. Much love to you xo
How do you get past pain and disappointment though to be open enough to manifesting good things? This is what I constantly grapple with.
Hey Sharon, thanks for commenting. I think it’s an ongoing process. For me, I think you first have to really surround yourself with this type of mindset (people who write about it, believe in it, live it) so that you truly believe it’s possible for you. Next, I think it helps to confront and address any pain you’re carrying. A really good book for this is You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay – specifically the workbook. That workbook was more healing for me than any therapy session I ever had, and I’m actually redoing it for a second time now. And last, I think it’s a conscious, daily effort to choose how you feel and to continuously forgive and let go. We don’t forgive just once and move on…we forgive every day and anytime the old feelings come up. It’s not condoning anything, it’s just recognizing that you deserve freedom from the past and you’re choosing to let go to allow the new to come in. I hope this helped some, this is a good blog topic that I think I’ll write about <3
This is an amazing post. The words hit home so, thank you. For the past year, I have been blogging on and off about addiction recovery because I know a lot about it since I am a recovering addict. Yet, something has been missing. Right before the New Year, I realized which direction I want to take the blog. What I want to write about. Yes, recovery will still be the main category but, it’s not the overall theme. Yet, I have been stalling, just talking about it because I feel as if I am not quite where I want to be to be able to write about what I want. I believe this post just lit a fire under my ass to go ahead and get it done. Thank you.
Plus, my blog uses the same theme by HYD so I am pretty sure it was a sign. lol Truthfully, I have been on this blog a bunch of times and I have never found this post before. Maybe there was a reason that I didn’t read it until now.
I’m SO glad to hear that Tasha! I understand where you’re coming from because I’ve had the same blocks when it comes to my blog. I also totally believe that we see things when we’re meant to see them. Perfect divine timing.
Wow I needed to read this today, especially the section about blogging and being an entrepreneur. As someone who is just starting out I’ve been having to work though a lot of limiting beliefs. This article has reassured me that I’m on the right track. Thanks so much for sharing what you learned 🙂
Thank you for sharing this in your email this week, it was exactly what I needed to read!
My Goodness ! I absolutely love your parenting tip to switch from I have to … to I get to! As a Medium this is life changing because I try to be great-full but a house full of boys and mess and I get to be apart of it all 🙂 – Will definitely refer you on megthemedium.com! 🙂
I totally hear you, house full of boys over here too 🙂 It’s not easy but it definitely helps to try to switch over to that way of seeing things. Thanks for stopping by <3
Thank you for these amazing tips! I am also starting a business and a mom of two small girls. The self doubt can be debilitating but you are right, action and belief and gratitude is everything.
This is the first time I leave a comment on a post but I REALLY loved this one. It was very insipiring for me, specially where you state start before you are ready and God has no other hands but yours. I’m starting my own business as a jewelry designer and almost everyday I wonder if I should give up or not. So I had to write this to you and say THANK YOU!
I’m so glad you enjoyed this post, Maria! Yes, there were so many powerful quotes and takeaways from that online summit, I’m glad I recorded them because it’s so nice to look over and be reminded. Thank you for taking the time to comment <3
I completely love this article!!! Specially because im kind of new in manifestation and LOA 💕 you’re awesome!
So happy to hear that, Leyka! Have fun manifesting <3