Discovering effective grounding techniques for anxiety can be one of the most beneficial and healing ways to flow with your emotions rather than against them.
Anything that numbs or ignores the emotion is only breaking the weed at the surface of the ground, rather than taking care of it from its root.
In this blog post, I'm sharing grounding techniques that not only help you in the moment but also calm the amygdala, soothe the nervous system, and help you process emotions instead of stuffing them down deeper.

How Grounding Techniques Work for Anxiety
Grounding techniques for anxiety work by bringing you back into your body and, at the same time, calming the nervous system. With anxiety, we're often stuck in our heads with fearful thoughts. The brain's amygdala then sends out smoke signals to the body that danger is near, putting your body into fight-or-flight mode.
This happens without most of us being consciously aware of it. When we're in this state, we're unable to grow and evolve because the body is prepared for attack, making it extremely difficult to get out of our heads.
It's a cycle that keeps repeating itself, which is why it's so healing to go straight to the root of your anxiety. We can numb and ignore our anxiety all we want, but that only makes it get bigger.
How Can I Calm My Anxiety Fast?
Anxiety is simply a messenger, and you wouldn't put tape over a messenger's mouth or send them away, would you? You could...but that wouldn't change anything other than whoever sent the messenger is going to use something bigger to get the message to you.
Spending some time addressing the messenger is the best way to calm your anxiety fast. Below are my favorite grounding techniques for calming and addressing the messenger known as anxiety.
1. EFT Tapping: Emotional Freedom Technique
This grounding exercise is hands down my favorite way to calm anxiety.
It brings you into your body, stimulates pressure points, calms the amygdala, and addresses emotions so they can be released.
You're essentially tapping on the same pressure points used in acupuncture. While tapping, you address your fears, emotions, and distressing thoughts, gradually shifting to new, calming thoughts.
Because you're tapping on these pressure points while addressing your fears, your amygdala is trained to no longer see these thoughts as threats, and it stops sending out the smoke signals in the moment and in the future.
You're basically telling your mind, "Hey, there's no need to be alarmed by this thought; we are safe."
Resources to Learn More:
- The Tapping Solution app: I use this almost nightly and tap on any emotion that's coming up for me.
- The Tapping Solution book: Offers detailed insights into EFT.
- YouTube: Search "EFT tapping" for various tutorials.
If I could share only one grounding technique for anxiety, EFT tapping would be it.
2. Deep Breathing: Inhale Calm, Exhale Tension
Deep breathing is my second favorite grounding technique to calm anxiety. Most of us do not breathe properly in the first place (with the belly expanding fully) and are thus not getting enough oxygen.
Deep breathing helps to calm the nervous system. You can feel this happening anytime you stop and take deep breaths. It's used by hypnotherapists to bring us down into slower brainwaves that are calmer, making the mind more receptive to other thoughts and ideas.
No matter where you are, you can stop and take deep belly breaths. It feels like an amazing stretch for the belly and begins to bring your awareness to the present moment.
Try the 4-7-8 Breathing Technique:
- Inhale for 4 seconds.
- Hold for 7 seconds.
- Exhale for 8 seconds.
This breathing technique can help reduce stress hormones and bring a sense of calm.
3. Warm Shower: Soothe with Scent and Sensation
Water is extremely grounding and helps to reset your nervous system. My anxiety can tend to get worse at night, so one thing I make sure to do is take a shower in the evening when I can feel myself starting to feel a little overwhelmed.
I've hung up string lights in my bathroom to lower the stimulation from overhead lighting, and the warm water with the darker environment really helps me to calm my nerves and mind.
I started using Dr. Teal's lavender Epsom salt body wash simply because the smell was therapeutic for me. You can think of little things like that for your shower time that further help to relax and reset you.
Since my anxiety has shown up as health anxiety, I also take further care to love on that part of my body. I had pain that showed up in my breast, so I like to collect special oils made specifically for breast health, and I put that on after showering while visualizing love and healing going into my breast.
Think of ways to soothe yourself further before, during, and after taking a shower. It's a great time for some quiet self-love.
4. Going for a Walk: Engage Your Senses & Move the Energy
Going for a walk is one of the simplest physical grounding techniques for anxiety because it allows you to release excess energy while coming back into your body through movement.
Walking naturally activates both hemispheres of your brain, which can help you process distressing thoughts with more ease. This bilateral stimulation is also why practices like EFT tapping and yoga are so powerful...they get your whole brain online again, not just the fear-driven part.
As you walk, use sensory grounding techniques to really anchor yourself in the present moment:
- Notice the texture of the ground beneath your feet.
- Pay attention to the sense of smell in the air — is it fresh, earthy, or floral?
- Tune into the sounds around you, whether that’s birds, wind, or even a favorite playlist with calming lyrics.
- Carry a smooth stone or a piece of fabric in your pocket to rub between your fingers as a comfort object.
- Pause to feel the warmth of the sun or the coolness of the breeze against your skin.
Walking doesn’t have to be long or forced. Even 5 minutes outside or pacing your living room while noticing physical sensations can shift your energy and bring you out of your head.
5. Yoga & Stretching: Release Muscle Tension and Create Space
Anxiety often shows up in the body as muscle tension or tightness. Stretching and slow yoga movements are incredible grounding exercises because they help move stuck stress hormones out of your system.
Some of my favorite poses for calming anxiety are:
- Child’s Pose — Resting your forehead on the mat stimulates the vagus nerve, signaling safety to your nervous system.
- Legs Up the Wall — Supports circulation and relaxation.
- Gentle neck rolls or shoulder stretches — Help relieve the physical symptoms of anxiety like tight shoulders or clenched jaws.
Yoga is also a beautiful time to practice mindfulness by noticing how each pose feels in your body, using the inhale and exhale to move deeper into relaxation.
For an extra soothing touch, you could light a candle with a calming scent like lavender or vanilla, or add a drop of essential oil to your wrists or neck for a sensory anchor during your practice.
Bonus: Create a Daily Routine of Grounding Rituals
While these techniques are helpful in moments of distress, their real power comes from regular practice.
Grounding techniques for anxiety work best when woven into daily life, not just when you’re feeling anxious, but as a preventative tool for well-being.
Consider layering grounding into your everyday routine:
- Light a candle or use an essential oil diffuser during morning journaling.
- Keep a smooth stone or comforting object like a piece of fabric on your desk.
- Practice the 4-7-8 breathing technique during transitions like before meals or after work.
- Incorporate visualization exercises where you imagine stress leaving your body with each exhale.
- Pet your animal slowly, really noticing the texture of their fur and the calmness it brings.
- Play a soothing playlist filled with lyrics that relax your mind.
- Taste your food mindfully, really savoring each bite.
Anxious thoughts lose their grip when we consistently remind our bodies that we are safe, supported, and grounded, not just in moments of panic, but as part of our daily routine.
Final Thoughts: Grounding Techniques Are About Coming Back to Yourself
Anxiety pulls us up and out of our bodies. Grounding is the practice of returning, to your breath, your senses, your muscles, your comfort.
Whether it’s the scent of an essential oil, the feel of a smooth stone in your hand, or simply pausing to exhale slowly, grounding techniques for anxiety are gentle invitations back to your center.
And the more we practice them, the more natural they become. Over time, these little rituals build resilience, soothe symptoms, and help you move through life with more steadiness and ease.
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Aline
EFT is one of my favourite method with yoga to calm myself! <3
I also sometimes have pains in my breasts and also difficulties to breath when my body isn't relaxed....
Ann
I love, love,love your blogs...they are helpful, honest, and very straightforward. SO glad I found you!!
Susan
This is an excellent post, Jessica! Thank you!
Erin
Thank you! I want to learn more about EFT. Right now is a great time! Thanks for your posts.
Jessica Dimas
The thing I love about EFT is how easy it is to pick up and begin applying. Thanks for commenting! <3
Andrea
Jessica, I love your writing! Thank you for all you do to help others. 🙂
Have you ever found it possible to do EFT tapping incorrectly? I tried it a while ago and it made my anxiety worse. Maybe I created an association of anxiety to it somehow? I had to stop midway through.
I’d love to benefit from it, but don’t understand why I responded the way I did. Has anyone else experienced that?
Hugs,
Andrea
Jessica Dimas
Hi Andrea, thanks for you question. Yeah, in the past I have actually experienced anxiety from tapping, which I believe was due to stating my fears out loud while tapping. I decided to not tap again that day because I don't like to force anything. Sometimes I think we can be so worked up that we need something more still and silent, like deep breathing, a dimly lit shower, or meditation.
I would try it again when you're not in a fully anxious state and see how it goes for you. If it still makes you feel worse, I would just let it go and remove it from my self-care "tool belt".
Andrea
That makes sense. Thanks so much! 🙂
Jessica
Jessica, your blog and weekly newsletters have been lifesavers for me the last few weeks! I've actually started a morning routine thanks to you! I purchased Journey to the Heart to read in addition to my Simple Abundance in the morning. Love them both so much-they really uplift me when I'm feeling that initial wake up fog. Your tips on how you deal with anxiety have also really helped me as well. Thank you for putting your knowledge out into the world for those of us that need to hear it! -Jessica
Yasmin
Hi red your blug i did it before but i want to tell that i did and help me
Thanks from israel
Jessica Dimas
So happy to hear that Yasmin, thank you for your comment.